Shrugging

I am a bit worried about being centre of attention on the big day, as it is not somewhere I ever aim to be any other time. When I find people looking at me I tend to disappear into my shoulders like a tortoise, or Bashful the dwarf, as above.

I also tend to do it when I'm happy, like when J looks at me in a nice way or when someone gives me compliments or presents.

We call it "shrugging" (it must be something I do a lot if we have a name for it) and I think I'll be in a permanent shrug all day!

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